VIDEOS
Watch. Reflect.
Elevate.
A growing library of conversations, lessons, and reflections with Vivienne Abena available to watch at your own pace, in your own time.
New videos are released each month, covering topics from etiquette and communication to lifestyle, confidence, and the quiet art of feminine presence.
LATEST Videos
N°1
How to Speak with Elegance, Grace and Finesse
Vivienne breaks down the common misconceptions around elegance and offers a clearer, more personal definition
N°2
How to Handle Insults and Criticism like an Elegant Lady
practical guide to slowing down your speech, choosing words more carefully, and communicating with the warmth and authority you carry inside
N°3
How to Set Boundaries as an Elegant Woman
The first 60 minutes of Vivienne's morning and the small, deliberate choices that set the tone for everything that follows.
N°4
10 Types of Shoes Elegant Women Should Own
The essentials of formal dressing without the intimidation. Practical, clear, and calm.
N°5
How To Curate the Ultimate Elegant Wardrobe
How to think about your wardrobe as a reflection of your values and begin building one that you feel genuinely at home in.
N°6
10 SIGNS That Show YOU are a CLASSY LADY
On what it means to enter a room with calm authority and the simple practices that make it possible.
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